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I have a dreadful feeling as the week closes that we readers will be stranded with two unresolved story lines -- the snowstorm and the proposal -- for some time. I remember when Kim proposed to Mike, and she was as miffed as the readers that GBT cut to the mailbag before Mike could answer.
Joanie and Alex will survive if they crack two windows an inch -- not just for oxygen but so the car doesn't frost up inside from their breath. Too small a crack for the wolves. Will Alex text for help? Nah.
Re the chance that "Sorkh Razil comes to the rescue and it's love at first sight": Let's not forget that Sorkh Razil is also Jeff, who is Alex's grandma's son and her mom's half-brother. So I don't see the storyline heading in that direction. Of course it would be heartwarming if Jeff -- in any guise -- somehow got to Massachusetts fast enough to rescue his mom, which there's no way will happen. It would be romantic if Toggle showed up to rescue his sweetheart, and I hope he does. But we're losing sight of what's going on here: Two of the best characters ever are in danger of freezing to death, and so far they haven't even bundled up tighter or taken care not to lose their toes. The cartoonist is the only one who can save them, and this is a comedy, after all, so he has to save them...Right?
Well, I'm getting quite the kick out of the texted marriage proposal. My youngest son is still active duty and his sweetie proposed to him during his last deployment by mailing him a ring pop with the query. He accepted, though apparently a ring pop is not part of the UOD. Like Alex, his fiance is also a very intelligent overachiever, and I couldn't be happier that today's young women know what they want and go for it.
Re "MARRIAGE": It's good to see someone standing up for Alex. GBT shouldn't just play with her as if she's his toything. There are other people whose identities depend on Alex's survival. Occupy Alex! if that's not rude.
Doonesbury has been my daily stress relief for 10 years. While I enjoy reading the Blowback from fellow fans, I was surpised to see the comments regarding wolf attack risk and lightning strike risk. Being a person who works teaching wilderness skills, I am a bit annoyed at the urban myths about these subjects. To be straight about it, the only people at risk are those exposed to wolves or lightning. The majority of people, being urban dwellers away from lightning and wolves, are not exposed to those risks, and including them in the calculation is meaningless...
A man was found in Sweden yesterday after being stuck in his snowed-in car for two months. So there's no hurry to resolve the storyline with Alex.
Given Joanie's age and the way that snow's piling up, I've got an awful feeling that it might not be Alex who's in for a rough time.
Leo has enough on his plate already, and having to tow around Alex's upper-middle-class emotional baggage on top of his own battle is just too much. Maybe I have a different point of view, being a disabled combat veteran myself, but I can hardly stand to be around stable individuals on my own bad flashback days. Leo not only has Alex taking him into densely crowded protests, she's even instigating sketchy situations with gun wielding Starbucks customers. Leo is trying to get his own life on track despite PTSD moments and a less than stellar background, so the last thing he needs is Alex spinning off into La-La land and dragging him along with her. With all due respect to those folks who identify with Alex, I just don't see the charm anymore. Leo has both stolen my heart, and served as inspiration to improve my own life despite injury and obstacle. I'd hate to see him wasted...
It's curious how Alex's watershed moments come when she's behind the wheel. Remember when she was driving through the Occupy demo and wanted to join, but Leo was having a bad flashback? She stuck with him -- good girl! He'd better remember too.
My heart sank when Skye was introduced. Poor Alex. How these little strips tug at your heartstrings!
I can't believe I'm going to be out of touch for a week, starting tomorrow. Why propose now of all weeks? Couldn't Alex wait till the end of the month as tradition demands? And did I just answer my own question?
Whew! I identify way too much with Alex -- the clever but emotionally flaky girl geek that I was a generation ago (and still am at heart). This morning I as I began my start-up ritual of reading Doonesbury online, I got that sick sinking anticipating-rejection feeling that I haven't experienced in real life since back in that day. What a relief to see that the redhead will bow out gracefully. At least, I hope that's what it means. Shiver...
No! Leo can't dump Alex unless Sorkh Razil comes to the rescue and it's love at first sight.
I have a feeling an eye patch isn't the only thing that's going to be new in Leo's life in the next few strips -- leaving Alex stuck all alone in the snowy wilderness.
I love the confluence of the new and the timeless: proposal-via-text-message crossed with the prehistoric drama between the better and lesser halves of humanity. And a cliffhanger no less: Toggle gets a snazzy new eye patch with a snazzy new marriage proposal -- all before lunch!
In my 20s and 30s, I was like Alex with her fantasies. (She thinks of so many reasons why Leo hasn't proposed, except the one that's based in reality -- he's not sure he wants to be with her for the rest of her life!) I think I understand why so many of my "intendeds" headed for the hills. Ouch. I sympathize with Alex, having been so deluded myself, but I'm liking Leo and Skye. Whether they're meant to be an item or not, I can see her as a breath of fresh air for him.
Other than not being an overbearing harridan, the voice-over lady Skye bears a striking resemblance to Toggle's Mom. Oh, my. And I'm such a fan of the Alex-Toggle connection, too. Sigh.
Speaking of marriage, Alex is 24 years old, and in grad school. Most of the girls I grew up with started stressing about marriage at age 16 and continued stressing on into their 30s. Especially with Prop 8 creating a Circuit Court split on a constitutional question the Supreme Court is bound to review, and more and more states okaying same-sex and transgender marriages, the right (and the expectation) of marriage and the awareness of its social benefits and responsibilities are on most young minds.
And GBT, if you hurt Alex again, as badly as it looks like you are fixing to do, you will hurt a lot of young readers along with her. From Jeff to Alex to young J.J. to Sam, you've depicted a whole cast of children and youths emotionally abandoned by their preoccupied parents, forced to assume adult responsibilities and raise themselves. Even "lazy" Jeff -- his parents didn't even notice when he became class president, so he left for college before graduating high school. No wonder Alex is seeking the stability of an adult family